
Tag: legit
wern:
taako: briefly shows a Feeling and is vulnerable
kravitz: aw babe…
taako: that was an uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm a test i was testing you,
the signs as john mulaney quotes
aries: hi, I’m very gay, and I’d like a few dollars
taurus: I don’t look older, I just look worse. honestly, when I’m walking down the street, no one’s ever like “hey! look at that man!” I think they’re just like “woah, that tall child looks terrible! get some rest, tall child! you can’t keep burning the candle at both ends!”
gemini: I’m really sorry about last night, it’s just that I’m mean and loud. it probably will happen again
cancer: I have had a very long day. I am very small… and I have no money… so you can imagine the kind of stress I am under
leo: some babies will point at me, and I don’t care for that shit at all
virgo: when I was a little boy, I was more like a 67-year-old gay man that’s kind of over it sexually
libra: everyone get out of my way! I just want to sit here and feed my birds
scorpio: I’ll keep my emotions right here, and then one day, I’ll die
sagittarius: sometimes, he will watch a movie on TV, even though he already owns that movie on DVD. pointing this out to him confuses and upsets him
capricorn: cars were pulling up and looking over to see who just did that piece of shit move, expecting to see a 100-year-old blind dog who’s texting while driving and drinking a smoothie. instead they see a 28-year-old healthy man, trying his best
aquarius: I look like I was just sitting in a room in a chair eating saltines for like, 28 years, and then I walked right out here
pisces: in terms of instant relief, canceling plans is like heroin
female adult: *compliments me*
me: [blushing profusely] holy.. om gh …. thank you so much ethereal angel
male adult: *compliments me*
me: *looks around for nearest escape route*
all public school anti-bullying activism is extremely transparent and meaningless
faculty: BULLYING IS BAD!! ZERO TOLERANCE POLICY!! THIS IS A HATE FREE ZONE!!
me: hey this person called me a stupid dyke today
faculty: hmm that’s unfortunate. have you tried perhaps, not being gay?
I feel like everyone is against bullying until they actually look at the kids who are being bullied.
The cheesy anti-bullying tapes that they show in schools feature these skinny straight white neurotypical kids who get picked on for no reason. Usually the insults are something along the lines of “You’re a loser!” or “Get lost, freak.” All the kids watching immediately feel bad for the victim, and think “Aw! She didn’t deserve that!”
Then, ten minutes later, they go pick on some marginalized kid without thinking twice. As an autistic person, I was often this kid. The insults I heard growing up were not “You’re a loser!” or “Get lost, freak.” They were “Don’t let the retard work with us” or “Shouldn’t she be going to the special school?”
The problem is we teach kids that bullying occurs for no other reason other than just to be mean. This could not be further from the truth. Bullying occurs because as a society, we condition kids into hating fat, black, neurodivergent, queer, and disabled people. Kids don’t bully each other just to be mean. They do it because if something’s “wrong” with the person, it’s completely justified.
But of course, we can’t tell kids this kind of stuff. We can’t say, “Hey! Making fun of your gay classmate is bad!”
Because when we do, suddenly the phone calls come pouring in, each with a parent on the other end screaming “You can’t be feeding my son that liberal propaganda!”
shoutout to 5th grade me for having a college reading level and apparently using up all future motivation for actual college age me to read what I’m supposed to. you 10 year old asshole
me when i’m sad: …..i should……buy stuff…..
heyyo here’s a fun fact for y’all
trans women don’t experience male socialization before we come out
we experience closeted trans woman socialization which is an entirely different and extremely toxic monster
thank and have a terrible day if you disagree
hi if you’re safe to do so you should probably be reblogging this
the idea that trans women are socialized as anything but women is one of the most potent arguments for stripping us of our humanity
Cops and Queers
I see a lot of white cis queers calling for more cops at Pride events right now. I’ve already seen them, walking through Boystown in Chicago, armed police silently watching us in their bullet proof vests. We forget that this is not comforting for a lot of the most vulnerable members of our community.
Most Pride events won’t be attacked. Honestly, as afraid as we are, most likely, this isn’t going to happen to us. Most Pride events are going to go off without anyone mass murdering us.
The thing I’ve noticed is that when cops go in expecting a fight, but don’t get one, they get bored. When cops get bored, they go looking for a fight, and they find it with people of color, and with trans/gnc people, and with sex workers.
And make no mistake, these are often the people doing the most for the queer community, the most radical, the most fired up. The most vulnerable members of our community are stuck in this place where they face a threat from both armed gunmen and cops. Bringing in more cops actually increases the likelihood that they’ll face trouble because again, these events have a 99.9% chance of not being attacked by homophobic citizens with guns, but now they have an increased likelihood of an altercation with police.
White cis queers, we have the privilege to not be bothered by this, but let’s not revel in this privilege. Don’t create a safe space for yourself at the expense of queer PoC. Reject increased police presence. Don’t trust them. Watch them. Protect our PoC, trans/gnc, sex worker community members from them. Don’t let more injustice happen so you can feel personally safe from a boogeyman.
Now, go have responsible fun at Pride. Do no harm, fight for your rights, and the rights of those below you on this unjust hierarchy.
couple things about the claim that matt murdock ‘isn’t really blind’
but he has super senses: matt murdock’s powers work in such a way that he is taking in dramatically more sensory input than the average person and then interpreting it based on a lot a lot of experience and training. none of that involves anything visual – the mental picture matt constructs based on the sensory information he receives is actually not a picture at all in the same way that listening to an audio drama and tracking the story by sound doesn’t make an image. describing a color by describing items, emotions, smells, sounds, and situations associated with that color may provide equivalent (or even more) information than seeing it would, but that information is distinct from sight, it’s something very much different than looking at it.
this idea really plays into the idea that if disabled people aren’t behaving specifically as expected, they’re actually faking their disability/aren’t worthy of receiving accommodations. that’s super dangerous and has dramatic real-life impacts. it’s especially dangerous in the case of something like blindness, where there’s a spectrum and variety of experiences, many of which involve some light perception/etc.
but he doesn’t need the same accommodations that nonpowered blind people need: so, let me tell you a fun little secret about disability and accommodations: people are different. people need different things. the assumption that all people with a certain disability have the same needs and same methods of approaching their world is really ableist. regardless, matt actually does benefit from a number of tools and skills and resources and accommodations associated with being blind/visually impaired. he uses his cane even after it’s no longer necessary to maintain his secret identity (Daredevil (2014)) suggesting it’s actually valuable to him, he reads Braille whenever possible rather than doing his bizarre fingertip reading (and fuck you immensely, Stan Lee, for suggesting he likes print better), he folds his money (mostly) according to AFB standards (Daredevil (2011) #22). on the show he uses a refreshable Braille display, has items throughout the office labeled in Braille, and has his clothes marked with Braille labels (as shown in season 2). but like, consider: estimates suggest that only 10% of people who are blind/visually impaired read Braille. there’s no singular experience of being blind, just as there’s no singular experience of being sighted.
but radar sense: no matter what ann nocenti might say (Daredevil (1964) #250) and no matter what foggy might suggest (Netflix, Nelson v. Murdock) matt’s radar sense actually doesn’t negate his blindness. his radar sense is often drawn like sight, because comic books are a visual medium and at some point you gotta include images in it, but it’s actually described more as a silent form of echolocation. he’s ‘pinging’ off of his surroundings like a bat in a way that seems more connected to sound than anything else. but regardless the fact that it’s written as a ‘radar sense’ instead of as sight really emphasizes that it’s a different sense, it’s something distinct. it’s just hard to put it into clear words because it’s a sense we don’t have.
but he’s like… a superhero. he can do things nonpowered blind people can’t do: i mean, sure, he can do things nonpowered blind people can’t do. he can also do things nonpowered sighted people can’t do. so can captain america. so can literally any superhero. him having superpowers doesn’t make him not disabled. this assumption that disability and heroism can’t mix is incredibly insidiously ableist.
matt murdock is disabled – is truly actually really disabled – and is also a superhero. matt’s not acting outside of his disability, or negating it, or overcoming it – he’s actually a superhero specifically within his disability. for instance: “I use my blindness to my advantage” (Daredevil (1998) #10). my fave example of this is Daredevil (2011) #20, when matt has to navigate his body around an underground lair while his head is trapped elsewhere (listen: it’s comics). he turns his billy clubs into his cane and sets off – the knowledge and self-awareness he’s learned through living in his disability ‘saves the day’ far more than his super senses or his fighting skills. (on the note of fighting skills – check out Jordan Mouton and Lola Walters).
if erasing disability is the only way you know to approach a disabled character who fills a role you can’t possibly imagine being filled by a disabled person, it’s incredibly likely that what needs to change is your perception of disability, your perception of strength, your perception of heroism.
but the narrative often treats him like a nondisabled character/a sighted character: yeah, that’s largely valid. daredevil has been around for a long time and has gone through a whole slew of writers and illustrators and filmmakers and directors, and many of those folks have limited/no understanding of disability politics, blindness, or, truly, matt murdock as a character. there’s a lot of ableism in the way daredevil is written, the way matt behaves, the way people behave around matt, etc. that’s real and a valid concern about the series.
matt largely falls into the super-crip trope and is actually like, a key example used to explain that trope. but i argue that rather than negating matt’s position as a disabled character, this narrative ableism actually presents a valuable method for approaching ableism in society and in media. matt having a useless cane/using his cane incorrectly/describing himself in language straight out of inspiration porn (Daredevil (2015) #1)/reading by touch/playing into the trope of ‘my other senses more than compensate’/being played by a nondisabled actor/having inaccurate braille/etc actually just illuminates the myriad ways that disability is misrepresented and misunderstood. deciding that matt is ultimately not disabled because of this ableism removes our ability to examine and address it