adsfgdsk so the ask about helping someone realize they have a kink made me realize that one of my kinks is just letting someone else make all the goddamn decisions. I’m an Older Virgin and one of my biggest worries is that when i finally find someone who wants to have sex with me, I’m not going to know what to do. I just want someone to be like “we’re going to try a bunch of different things until we figure out what you like, here is today’s list of things to try.”
oh my god, they were roommates 