Tag: nsfw

Hullo I am also fuzzy and good. How do you write such good explicit/pornographic stuff? Sincerely, a gal who’s written two explicit things and they’re both ehhhh…

ooh, okay, some thoughts from a scrappy, untrained writer (also thank you for saying that!)

MOST IMPORTANT ADVICE: call a dick a dick (or related words). they’re not interesting enough to warrant all the metaphors.

Other Stuff: 

  • let people talk during sex!!!
    • cute romantic swoony talk
    • filthy, filthy dirty talk
    • tense, uncomfortable talk
    • laughing and giggling (more of this pls) 
  • when you can’t figure out how to write a sex position, just google image it and describe whatever porn you see. somewhere in my history, you’ll find many variations on “gay sex on washing machine / in shower / against wall.”
  • i also have a tendency to just straight up describe what’s happening instead of making it pretty? like [x] goes into [y] in [z] way = sex. i think for me it’s the same as the dick thing–we all know what’s happening so it’s not necessary to cloak it in mystery unless you’re just into that. 
  • (i’m also not talented enough to write anything more than the math equation version of sex lol so take everything with a grain of salt!!) 
  • fading to black is great! sometimes, i’m in the middle of a scene and i’m, like, “ugghhh, i think the cuddling afterward is more important than the rest of the sex and writing orgasms is weird” and i just fucking skip it. 
  • writing orgasms is weird 
  • i have no help for that 

adsfgdsk so the ask about helping someone realize they have a kink made me realize that one of my kinks is just letting someone else make all the goddamn decisions. I’m an Older Virgin and one of my biggest worries is that when i finally find someone who wants to have sex with me, I’m not going to know what to do. I just want someone to be like “we’re going to try a bunch of different things until we figure out what you like, here is today’s list of things to try.”

I don’t really know what kinks I have because I’m so detached from my body that the only way I can imagine sex is by projecting onto fictional characters but edging? I guess? and denial? also being taken care of by someone older, I’m bi but rn I really want it to be a girl

i .. get off on feeling powerful and large, i guess. last week i was on the roof and there was a huge lightning storm a couple kilometers away, over the sea. i was a bit frustrated that i didn’t get a date that night, so i just sat in an armchair and jerked off to the sight of gigantic lightning bolts in the east, and also cried a little bit because it was primal and beautiful

For the kink confession: I’m a strong, bigger girl, but I would love to be manhandled and tied up by someone I trust completely and who would never hurt me. He would probe me and test my limits for hours. Either to much orgasms or to little, but never with actual pain involved. It would end with him cumming inside me or all over me and then cuddling and falling asleep in his arms… So I guess a domination kink without the who humiliation/sadism aspect

I really want to be tied up and praised. God I get so lovey when people praise me or my body and call me a good boy, especially when I’m getting them off. All I want in this world tbh. Oh also please pull my hair.

ALSO when you’re pulling someone’s hair and they deliberately tilt their head away so it pulls harder, or roll their neck so it pulls evenly in all directions… almost like mini predicament bondage. more fics should include predicament bondage!

I don’t really know if it’s a kink so much as a preference, but I’m what is apparently called a service top. I don’t like too much attention on me, because I don’t like myself very much, but if someone is like, submissive to me but still in charge, heck yeah. I want to please my partner, but mostly I want them to want me wholly and completely and I want to know that I’M the one making them fall apart. And if they guide me a bit in the process, even better. Nothing too domineering though.

okay i don’t know if this is what your other anon meant but being nibbled/bitten on the inner wrist and forearm is great and weirdly intimate. also leaves good marks that can be easily seen by others…

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