I don’t really know if it’s a kink so much as a preference, but I’m what is apparently called a service top. I don’t like too much attention on me, because I don’t like myself very much, but if someone is like, submissive to me but still in charge, heck yeah. I want to please my partner, but mostly I want them to want me wholly and completely and I want to know that I’M the one making them fall apart. And if they guide me a bit in the process, even better. Nothing too domineering though.
oh my god, they were roommates 